Wowzers. That's pretty crazy, and it doesn't sound right. I know what being on the bad end of the stick with favoritism feels like, but my bad end feels like a friggin merry little meadow compared to yours. With annoying singing woodland creatures and all 80 good luck with everything. it'll all get better somehow.

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That stinks. Just don't run away. Maybe it's just because she's younger. But I think its unfair how that make favourites.

That sucks! D= I hate how people can act like total brats, and then the decent people get the brunt of it all! I wish I could give your parents a piece of my mind, they'd get an earful!
*hugs*

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This is why I hate brats. They get what they want by crying and whineing and lying. untill they get what they want. parents don't want to ground them becuase they keep screaming their heads off. my freinds sister is like that. she found our the hard way my parents don't tolerate that stuff. and neither do I.

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OH, AND TODAY...oops caps....but today...my dad took my iPod again because.....no reason. AND i tried to tell them what i think again...grounded even longer "Dont try to tell us crap when youre being disciplined". But i tried when i wasnt...and i got grounded. I HATE SUMMER

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Oh, Fruity, that's really rotten. *hugs* I wish I could do something to help you. Hang in there, it won't last forever. Just a few more years and you'll be old enough to move out.

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— Thomas Edison

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That's awful! I got angry with your parents and your sister just reading that. It just sucks...you should be allowed to do the music, first of all, and they should be listening to your opinion more. Your sister sounds like a total jerk. I really hope things get better. -hugs-

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That stinks. Try to talk to them when she's not home and they aren't doing anything and you're all calm.

I don't have siblings that live with me so I'm not sure what to say. Sorry. =/

The favoritism in this case is extremely ridiculous. Parents need to learn the younger siblings have the same capability to lie, be deceitful, and...(what's the right word? Oh wellz.) abuse others just as well as older brothers or sisters.

And it really fooin' sucks that you can't go to the high school you want just because of dance. And your parents take away your iPod?!??! I know I couldn't live without my music, let alone keeping my sanity. I think I would run away, too...

I hope everything gets better....really soon.

~ Ashy

*breathes deeply* There are many things I'd like to say, using colorful language and derogatory terms (ooh, I see Losty feels the same way), but I must not. I must tell myself that, as infuriating as your sister's behavior is, a lot of it isn't her fault. Yes, her actions are her own, but think about how she is being raised and treated by your parents. They give her a lot of room to act out and never have to face the consequences, thus resulting in her bratty, 'I can do what I want' mindset.

I think the best thing you can do is not to lose control. Be the bigger person here, the mature one. If you want to try talking to your parents, keep yourself cool and confident. If your sister is, perhaps, bugging you, say to her in a polite but firm tone, "Please do not disturb me, I'm trying to (______)"

Besides that, I'm not sure what else to tell you. All I can hope is that your parents will come to their senses and see what your younger sister is doing to you, and how their lack of discipline against her is tearing apart your family.

Adieu!

P.S. If nothing works out, hopefully karma will come and give your sister something she deserves.

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*Struggles to control anger* Okay i am not going to use (as Rubystripe put it so nicely) "Colorful language" but your sister needs to learn she's NOT the only one who wants stuff and i feel that you should be able to move to the high school you want to and your sister is going to get a BIG shock when she realizes that her teachers in Middle school don't take the carp she puts out unlike the elementary teachers who take it in silence (your sister is almost like a girl named Allie in my class, she did ANY thing to get attention and eventually the school kicked her out and then she came back with a "New" attitude but in real terms she never changed) hopefully everything ets better but try to stay calm and ignore everything she does that's aimed towards you in a bad way. she is most likely wanting attention from you and is acting like a brat in order to receive it.

I'm not the best person for advice on this case, since I'm an only child, but I still understand it completely.
But you can't transfer with your friends because of DANCE? *struggles to not go crazy* I think that I would explode, too...
Sometimes, when I'm really mad/upset/distraught/going crazy, I feel the same way that you do about exploding or running away, and this is what I do to help myself feel just a little bit better.
What I do is, I stay to myself in my room, and think about it, get all of the anger out, think about it some more, go crazy (secretly), and do something that helps you keep your cool, or helps you feel better at least. (in my case I'd play video games or something)
Normally, it doesn't help much, but sometimes it actually does.

And now, I realize just how lucky I am to be an only child.
Hopefully it'll all get better soon, though. You can only hope. (except I've learned that sometimes, you're better off to expect the worst, so when it happens, you're not disappointed or surprised. Go ahead and prepare yourself for the bad times, and then, when good times happen, you can explode with happiness.)
*growls* But I really do hate parents that do that. They should at least listen. Elementary kids are just as good at lying as Middle School Kids and High School kids are.
Hope it gets better!
~Icy

I'm not the best person for advice on this case, since I'm an only child, but I still understand it completely.
But you can't transfer with your friends because of DANCE? *struggles to not go crazy* I think that I would explode, too...
Sometimes, when I'm really mad/upset/distraught/going crazy, I feel the same way that you do about exploding or running away, and this is what I do to help myself feel just a little bit better.
What I do is, I stay to myself in my room, and think about it, get all of the anger out, think about it some more, go crazy (secretly), and do something that helps you keep your cool, or helps you feel better at least. (in my case I'd play video games or something)
Normally, it doesn't help much, but sometimes it actually does.

And now, I realize just how lucky I am to be an only child.
Hopefully it'll all get better soon, though. You can only hope. (except I've learned that sometimes, you're better off to expect the worst, so when it happens, you're not disappointed or surprised. Go ahead and prepare yourself for the bad times, and then, when good times happen, you can explode with happiness.)
*growls* But I really do hate parents that do that. They should at least listen. Elementary kids are just as good at lying as Middle School Kids and High School kids are.
Hope it gets better!
~Icy

sorry about the double post! I accidentally hit the button twice because my computer was taking so long I thought it hadn't uploaded. Sorry again!
~Icy

That's ok, icethroat. Most of us have double-posted at one time or another, including me. The site is slow sometimes, and I hope it will be better when the new server is up. Just try to be patient and wait a while before clicking the button again.

Sheila Ruth

Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.
— Thomas Edison

im really sorry.. my sister beats me up too, but she's 5 so i dont know how she'll act later on in life... i am sad to say that she beats me up for no reason..

she once did that to me because i told her there is no such thing as a pink iphone.
she is possibly jealous of you... i dont know but your parents sound really unreasonable.. even though i am not blaming them.

by the way i was grounded from my ipod and all other electronic stuff for a month and a half, so i know how you feel:(

~i must chase the bunnies or basement cat will eat me~

Oh, but don't kill yourself. You can kill her, I'd be jolly. But yeah.

I know how you feel, Fruity, but, my parents love my older sister. Same with the most of my family. They love her and my nephew so much and barely forget about me. The only family celebration for my birthday was a week before, and it was the night before my nephew's christening, and then they went right ahead and had his birthday 'party' even thought he was a month from turning one.
And on my actual birthday, I had to do some thing for school, and after hanging with my friend for about 2 hours, I had to go to sister's going-away party.
Not as bad as your's, but, yeah. Sorry for ranting -_-

That sucks, I mean 10 minutes of dance or transferring high school, seriously? I would be exploding too. As for talking to your parents I would suggest writing something and just leaving it in your room, because I know they stop you when you try to talk to them but I've found most people will read something you leave for them even if they generally wouldn't let you tell them it.

~Fern<3

^thanks Sunny